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  • “So what do you think about a guy who’s currently a a loser now, but say: “I’m a loser but if I just resign myself and settle for what I can get, that’s resigning myself to fate. I want to work harder and see what I can *really* get from life!” and resolves to become the kind of man that is worthy of a beautiful lady?”
That he’s unlike a lot of my male friends who feel entitled to their hot girl& want certain women to give them a chance & unlike my female friends who feel entitled to their prince despite not having the traits that make a girl a princess (being a high maintenance b*tch is not one).

I’m all for personal development and realizing your flaws however if this is done just to attain beauty you might as well turn to pua/gaming.

Everyone wants a partner they are attracted to but when appreciating attractiveness (liking it) becomes admiring (valuing it) it there tends to be problems.

That settle for what I can get & worthy of a beautiful lady disappoints me though.

What is settling to you is it being with a girl as equally attractive as you settling as is the case of my male friends?

By being worthy do you only look to fix character issues & not appearance ones? Girls are less visual not blind & willing to compromise on looks when you have at least 70% of what they want.

143Craven Moorehead May 15, 2011 at 1:04 pm
@udolipixie

“I don’t seek financial security from a mate but rather emotional security. I have enough savings, modeling money, pageant money, and freelance money to support myself & any kids I adopt/in vitro.”
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Dear, really?? Did you know the Playmate of the year only receives 100k?? You have enough “savings” for everyone? From pageants???? What would a pageant pay, for example, in Toledo Ohio? First place $400? Or is that on the high side?
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Modeling? The lowest paid occupation on the planet, right next to musicians and actors. So, you’re set for life from county pageants and Sears catalog? Good luck with that.

144Sam F May 15, 2011 at 1:46 pm
@udolipixie