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Badger
This is an awesome list. Oftentimes looking at what ISN’T working is a good way to get on the right track.
rivsdiary
well said badger. it’s like saying, sometimes the best way to define something is by saying what it’s not.
Badger
“Stand in a corner of the bar. Women who see you will wonder, “Who is that sexy mystery man standing alone?” They won’t think that a guy (or, even better, a group of guys) standing on the outside looking in is pathetic.”
Aunt Giggles peddles this advice without irony to guys who don’t want to take on a socially “out” persona. The “brooding stranger” shtick is just not successful, way less successful than opening even a small amount of girls.
You can be successful without being the life of the party, but you have to at least look like you are there to _do_ something.
jarl
I used to fail on the first one a lot. I would label a girl a dirty slut not worth pursuing. Once my notch count increased and I realized that almost all girls are dirty sluts waiting for you to push their sexual boundaries, I got over it. I think it’s a much healthier view in the long run. It’s still the best to “defile” a good girl.
Years ago I would pore over Maxim and other mens magazine like Esquire and GQ for the answer to this question, “How do I know if a girl is interested in me?”