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Belting back penny shots as soon as the 11:00 special starts.

Hugging the bartenders at your favorite joints for free drinks.

Dancing on the bar with your shirt off.

Granted, those are SWUGs, but the freshmen girls at Toad’s are the ones envying the SWUGs, hoping to be noticed by them. It shouldn’t take too much conversation to figure out what’s what.

39Anacaona April 15, 2013 at 3:21 pm
Just curious. Why do the highest SMV girls overwhelmingly swim in this pond? Unless you crush on female athletes, if you are looking for physically impressive women, here is where you will find them.
Looking sexually available and relatively easy is not the same as high SMV. The ones that are sending ‘mate me’ signals overwhelm the other things like ‘nice face and body’. There is the problem restricted girls being selective and all that telegraph ‘date me’ signals. You need to be on date mode, be highly restricted yourself and/or only mingle with restricted girls to be able to stop looking at the ‘shiny’ ones as the highest SMV women, YMMV.

40Jason773 April 15, 2013 at 3:21 pm
I still contend that David, even if he focused on girls in a more conservative social circle, would have a hard time locking one down and/or keeping her. The guy is beta/white-knight to the core, and he is eventually going to repel 95% of females, conservative or not, with that attitude.

His only chance would be to find a girl 1-2 SMV points below him, but he clearly doesn’t want that (judged by the kind of girls he is seeking at the college bars), or pray to find a needle in a haystack.

41Jason773 April 15, 2013 at 3:30 pm
To be fair though, it’s hard to blame the guy for his initial feelings, but publishing his thoughts basically proves he is a ‘forever alone’. At 18 I knew very little about intersexual dynamics, so a pass is given there, and I needed a lot of trial and error, but once I did get some experience in the marketplace I readjusted to fit the terms (as a Yale undergrad, he should be intelligent enough to correct his algorithms). This guy obviously wants to live in his fantasy world, keep his misaligned frame and blame outside forces.

No pity is left and I’d be willing to bet that a guy like this, even when he reaches his peak SMV, will still be hitting way below his league.