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The matrix of dating
Are Women Cut Out to Be Friends With Benefits?
How to Stimulate Demand in a Relationship Recession
Why Women are Hottest in Countries With Too Few Dudes
The online dating reboot
Dating As Extreme Sport
5 Steps to a Relationship Commitment
This One Thing Predicts Divorce With 94% Certainty

The point is, men and women both can’t expect to turn off our attraction triggers. You *do* have it easier – 100% of the people you meet will be attracted to you, so you don’t ever have to even think about it. All you have to concern yourself with is if 1) you like him, and, 2) if he is willing to get to know the real you. Players won’t want to take the time to do this. Like car thieves, they will want to move on to easier targets.

That latter part is key. You can’t expect men to take the risk and initiative to approach you but simultaneously not be attracted to you, any more than a guy can expect hot girls to approach him so he can avoid the possibility of rejection. It just won’t work. If you get all offended if people hit on you, imagine what it’s like to never be approached. Ever.

If hot people really had it harder, they’d get plastic surgery to make themselves uglier. Or eat lots of donuts.

122Badger April 12, 2011 at 9:12 pm
“I give up. I feel like singing Morrissey and Smiths songs all the time.”
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I also love the Smiths, but I caution everybody to only listen to them when you’re in a good mood and a good way in life. Listening to them when you’re down is hazardous to your health!
Badger´s last [type] ..Inner Game 101

123Badger April 12, 2011 at 9:16 pm
Bella,
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“And there’s another thing. I don’t know how to play the game. I’m one of those pretty girls who is really nice, genuine and sweet, and who doesn’t play games. And although I am confident most of the time, some times it scares me just how alone I might be when one day I am no longer young and pretty. Because I can never tell if men are interested in me because I am pretty, or because I am pretty… amazing as a person.”
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I think I can help you. What is your phone number?
Badger´s last [type] ..Inner Game 101

124Susan Walsh April 12, 2011 at 9:51 pm
I also love the Smiths, but I caution everybody to only listen to them when you’re in a good mood and a good way in life. Listening to them when you’re down is hazardous to your health!